Thank you Deon!

There are very few women who actually know what they want…In life? In a partner? emotionally? Physically? From themselves as human beings??? I find it attractive, stimulating a turn on when a woman like that says she wants ME???… I will not be able to think of anyone else… that’s me other men are probably different but I don;t think by much.

If women spent more time experiencing themselves rather than reading magazines, self help books, oprah and all the measuring tools society has to confirm if you are on par with what a woman should look like, feel like, smell like, act like, speak like, have sex like… they would find a whole other world out there where their decisions wil be about what makes them happy, what moves them, what they want from themselves and in a partner… and like I said there is nothing more a ppealing to me than being wanted, it’s my biggest turn on, often bypassing looks and weight.

Why can Madonna get away with half the vile things that she has done and still make the cover of magazines at the age of 50??? Because she knows who she is, she does what she enjoys doing, and takes responsibility and criticism for all of it nonchalantly while looking the best she can because she chooses to (and often goes overboard with a whole lot of sheep).

I think that when more women start to realise that they have more to offer men emotionally and intellectually because they are comfotable in ‘their own skin’ with their cellulite, and blotchyness, and wrinkles and no make up on… that their relationships with men will evolve deeper, more emotionally… they will want their partners more because they will fear rejection less…

That’s my take on it…. somebody, anybody, agree or tell me otherwise…