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		<title>Why people need to stop believing in God</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 18:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deon Barnard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Immediately upon reading the title of this post, numerous moderate Christians will respond with something similar to the following question I found on a friend&#8217;s Facebook profile: &#8220;so why take a dig at religious people? u have the rite not to believe so they have just as much of a rite to believe? and none [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img align="left" src="http://www.deonbarnard.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/060610_1858_Whypeoplene1.jpg" alt=""/>Immediately upon reading the title of this post, numerous moderate Christians will respond with something similar to the following question I found on a friend&#8217;s Facebook profile: <strong><em>&#8220;so why take a dig at religious people? u have the rite not to believe so they have just as much of a rite to believe? and none of us should be arrogant enough to think that only what we believe is the rite thing&#8221;. </em></strong>All spelling aside, this is the kind of response I get on my blogs frequently. Of course, the reason anyone would make such a statement is that they truly believe that it doesn&#8217;t really matter what you believe, and that people should just get along. The problem with this view is that any religion, by definition, requires that its adherents reject all other religions and hold its own doctrines and myths up as the &#8216;only true path&#8217;.
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<p>No evangelical Christian believes that Muslims or Hindus are going to heaven. No Muslim believes that Christians or Buddhists are going to heaven. There is no tolerance in religious faith, and anyone who claims to be a Christian with the view &#8220;live and let live&#8221; is either not a Christian at all or has no serious understanding about what is being preached to them every Sunday. Religion, as it relates to believing in gods or &#8216;God&#8217; is, in my view, the most dangerous and sinister activity of mankind, and I am firmly convinced that our hope of survival as a species is directly related to how soon we can throw off the shackles of superstition and religious &#8216;faith&#8217;.
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<p>One might say that religion is a type of spiritual discrimination, born out of exactly the same dull ignorance and supreme arrogance that births every other type of discrimination. As though our skin colour; gender; nationality; or what silly non-existent beings we subscribe to, could possibly make us &#8220;better&#8221; than anyone else, by some accident of birth that resulted in our being raised in a particular family, culture or nation. Moderate Christians everywhere would take offense to slavery or apartheid, but don&#8217;t seem to apply the same reasoning to their own bigoted religious beliefs.
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<p>So, why do people need to stop believing in God? I shall present here what I consider to be critical reasons. I will not focus on the overwhelming empirical evidence against the existence of God, or counter specific traditional arguments for the existence of God as I have done this in several previous posts and will do so again, no doubt, in the future. Instead, I want to look at some of the particular dangers and problems that religious faith imposes on individuals and nations alike.
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<p>Firstly, religious faith promotes fallacious reasoning and dullness of mind. By its very definition faith requires a suppression of logical thought. I often hear Christians saying things like, &#8220;your problem is you think too much… just believe!&#8221; These same people apply logic and sound reason to many daily activities like their monthly budgets, holiday planning, purchasing insurance or medical aid, passing exams, and so forth – but in the arena of God and church are quite happy to turn off their minds and believe absolutely ridiculous notions about unknowable beings they&#8217;ve never seen and ancient mythologies that have been proven inaccurate thousands of times over. This temporary insanity spills over into daily life where, &#8220;I&#8217;ll pray for you&#8221; becomes an honorable substitution for, &#8220;what can I do to help you?&#8221; and, &#8220;God will provide&#8221; becomes a praiseworthy excuse for not doing anything about it. The evil of this mindset becomes more apparent on a macro level when random natural events like the floods in Haiti are seen as God&#8217;s punishment on the sinful, and thousands of brainwashed people take to the streets after the event to &#8216;praise God&#8217; for his mercy in saving them, despite the fact that God saw fit to exterminate thousands of innocent children. These same people will wait for God to show his great provision to rebuild their nation without as much of a consideration as to how radically different God&#8217;s actions are compared with his supposedly perfect and loving character.
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<p>The greatest thing that could happen to Haiti is for people to throw of the chains of religious indoctrination and see the world for what it really is; then, not wasting another minute in futile prayers and ceremonies, pick up the pieces of their lives and take full responsibility for their own future. This same religious blindness permeates even academic society where those free thinking individuals who tirelessly work at understanding the state of the universe for what it really is, are constantly opposed by well meaning religious buffoons who&#8217;s own interpretation of archaic biblical morality puts the brakes on progress in stem cell research or the teaching of the fact of evolution in schools around the world. Belief in God all too often turns otherwise intelligent people into arrogant and ignorant fools.
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<p>I was recently talking to a catholic friend of mine about the recent news story where E-TV had an interview with a man claiming that he had plans to kill tourists coming to South Africa during the football world cup. We started talking about whether E-TV had the right to keep the man&#8217;s identity and location a secret knowing that public security was at risk. We agreed that confidentiality is important in journalism, but there must be a line where the security of the public is more important than the confidentiality of an individual. Then someone brought up the similarity with priests and how they also vow never to give up a secret that is confessed in the confession box. My catholic friend said, &#8220;Well of course that&#8217;s different.&#8221; I asked how it was different. He said, &#8220;Priests have made a vow before God.&#8221; I was amazed that an intelligent man could simply turn off his faculties of reason the second the conversation became an issue concerning God – and that&#8217;s exactly the problem with faith! Faith and religion lead people to believe that any doctrines of the church (their church) and any issue that relates to God is above question, critique or any application of science or reason.
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<p>History has proven, and public news continues to prove, that where millions of people are happy to believe whatever ludicrous thing they hear from their pulpits and religious leaderships, they will from time to time birth fanatical elements capable of justifying, for the sake of God, the murder of innocents, the destruction of buildings, suicide bombings, religious crusades and the killing of doctors, scientists and free thinkers. Moderate religion may deny responsibility for these heinous deeds, but it is the solid core of moderate religion that incubates and prepares the seed of fanaticism, hatred and apocalyptic visions.
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<p>There will always be madmen and criminals looking for the power to control people – some of these will use religion to net a large following, and others will use religious techniques, banishing all religions but requiring worship of the state, or even the person of the ruler, as God. The fact that religion still perseveres in the world just makes it easier for these people to accomplish their goals, knowing that they have at their disposal hundreds, thousands or even millions who are willing to set aside clear thinking and give themselves to blind faith and credulity – even calling such gullibility noble and honorable and commendable.
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<p>The second major problem I have with belief in God is that it devalues this, the only life we have any reason to believe we have. Almost every religion, and certainly all monotheistic religions (Christianity, Islam and Judaism in particular), have at their core the firm belief that this world of sin and depravity is but a temporary detour on the journey to an everlasting place of happiness (for the faithful), or eternal agony and torment in hell (for sinners, unbelievers, homosexuals, and in fact anyone who doesn&#8217;t agree with their particular point of view). That may seem like a reasonable enough lure, or threat to make sure the flock tows the line, but in practice it is a devastating position that results in immeasurable suffering, war and death in this life all over the world. I have seen evangelical Christians &#8216;helping the Jews&#8217; with the notion that they&#8217;re somehow speeding up the coming of Jesus and the onset of a new heaven and earth. I have seen Muslims blow themselves up along with a few infidels in the sure knowledge that doing so will please Allah and result in their receiving their choice of virgins in heaven. Religious wars present no moral problem when you know God is on your side and that he&#8217;s coming soon to give you your due reward. Poverty and economic devastation don&#8217;t seem so bad when you consider that soon it&#8217;ll all be over and your heavenly reward will be in relation to the hardship you suffered in life.
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<p>Where once religious conflicts were resolved with spears and stones, we now have the capacity to destroy all life on earth and go out thinking we&#8217;re doing the right thing by God. Religion has never been so dangerous and belief in God has never been so stupid. We have all the facts at our disposal to eradicate mysticism and religion and yet we hold onto it more tightly than ever. We know the earth is round. We know what causes floods and volcanoes. We know how diseases spread and how to stop them spreading. We know how species are formed through evolution by natural selection. We know that there is nothing to be scared of in the dark. We have as much reason to believe in a personal, invisible, all knowing, all powerful, all good God as to believe in an underwater civilization called Atlantis, or a flat earth, or unicorns and magic – and yet we persist in nonsensical beliefs that threaten our very existence as a species on this planet.
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<p>Belief in God is not honourable or reasonable. Calling that belief &#8216;faith&#8217; and claiming that faith is better than reason is less than honourable – it&#8217;s downright evil.</p>
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		<title>How a pastor became an atheist</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 20:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deon Barnard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been reluctant to write this article primarily because I&#8217;m not enthusiastic about wading through a mountain of Christian &#8220;we&#8217;re praying for you&#8221; responses. The reason I write this article about my journey from Christian leadership to atheism is that I&#8217;ve had numerous people, mainly Christians, asking me on Facebook, &#8220;what happened to you?&#8221; or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.deonbarnard.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/040410_2031_Howapastorb1.jpg" alt="" align="left" />I&#8217;ve been reluctant to write this article primarily because I&#8217;m not enthusiastic about wading through a mountain of Christian &#8220;we&#8217;re praying for you&#8221; responses. The reason I write this article about my journey from Christian leadership to atheism is that I&#8217;ve had numerous people, mainly Christians, asking me on Facebook, &#8220;what happened to you?&#8221; or &#8220;how did you become so anti?&#8221; or something similar – and even though I generally point those people in the direction of my blogs, the truth is you need to read several articles to put the whole picture together; so I&#8217;ve decided to put the answer in a single blog so that I can point newcomers here when the question is asked again.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll start by dismissing the first assumption that comes my way, which is that I was &#8216;hurt&#8217; by someone or some church and therefore rejected God in some kind of emotional tantrum. This did not happen. Sure, there were people within the ministries I was involved in that I didn&#8217;t see eye to eye with, but on the whole I enjoyed my time in Christian ministry and enjoyed the people and communities I was involved in. I generally had good relationships with my leaders and was happy to carry out my responsibilities with enthusiasm. If I had disagreements, we talked them out. People did not chase me away from God. If I believed God actually existed I would not be as stupid as to think people were any reflection of his character. So to all you well meaning Christians who are convinced I must have had some sort of &#8220;fall out&#8221; – sorry to disappoint you.</p>
<p>Some people say I was &#8216;on fire&#8217; for Jesus! One of the most enthusiastic Christians they ever met. That&#8217;s probably true, but not because of the &#8216;power of God&#8217; or anything supernatural – simply because I&#8217;m one of the most enthusiastic &#8216;anythings&#8217; you&#8217;ll ever meet – it&#8217;s called personality, and mine is extrovert, charismatic, and crowd oriented. I&#8217;d be just as enthusiastic a Muslim if I was one, but I&#8217;m not. The level of someone&#8217;s enthusiasm or charisma has nothing to do with the truth content of their beliefs. It is precisely because there are a bunch of good communicators in the church that masses of people are led to believe absolute myth. I often feel a great amount of regret for my part in so many people being so &#8216;sure&#8217; of something so wrong. I also regret the amount of time I wasted on those activities for so many years – but that&#8217;s another paragraph.</p>
<p>Like pretty much everyone else in South Africa I was raised Christian. Christened in the Anglican church, confirmed in the Methodist church, baptized in a Pentecostal church and later worked in various denominations around the world as a missionary and pastor/speaker. Like most Christians I never doubted the truth of anything I came to believe – the Bible, the sermons, the teachings etc all became part of the foundation of who I was. Muslims were bad, Hindu&#8217;s were mysterious, Atheists were demon possessed and Jews were confused cousins. By age 20 I was set firmly on the path of expanding &#8216;God&#8217;s Kingdom&#8217; to all the poor unbelievers of the &#8217;10/40 window&#8217; and beyond (you&#8217;ll have to Google that one). Between mission trips and preaching in the middle of Africa I was doing theological studies and reading the bible, over and over again. Later I moved into local church ministry where I led youth groups, music worship teams, taught Bible studies and preached sermons. I was a Christian fanatic that wanted to save the world for Jesus.</p>
<p>By the age of about 25 something new was happening in me. My youthful, unquestioning, overzealous self started to be replaced by a thinking, tolerant, more observant me. I started developing a distaste for cliché, which Christians are so prone to use when they have nothing intelligent to say. I started realizing that the average Christian really had no idea why what they believed was true, except that it was, and that was that. This was not good enough for me. I thought that maybe a revolution was required in the church to make it more practical and relevant to an emerging post modern society. I started having church services where I would put all the chairs outside or bring in a rock band to liven the place up. I had people communicating with each other in church services and sharing real problems. The congregation in Bakerton grew from 20 people to 120 in a month, but no amount of transforming the physical activities from wooden pews to electric guitars, or bible studies to prophetic healing sessions could help me shake a growing niggle in my conscience that there were some fundamental problems with everything we stood for – primarily the exclusiveness of our beliefs and the idea that God would create billions of souls only to leave the vast majority to the whim of the devil while the Christians enjoyed all sorts of &#8216;advantages&#8217; in this life and the life to come primarily because they were privileged enough to be born in a Christian country. My faith was fighting with my intellect and losing. I was becoming less and less satisfied to sit around giving the same message every week to Christians and never forming loving bonds with anybody else in the world. For some time I stopped preaching and active ministry involvement, although I remained an elder in the church. During this time I sat quietly and observed. I listened to the stuff we were proclaiming and watched the lives of people. I considered the truth of what we said, and did so rationally and calmly – and as I did, the illusion started to crumble all around me. I prayed frequently during this time for wisdom and clarity.</p>
<p>By 2005 I had stopped &#8216;paid&#8217; ministry totally and had started what felt to me to be something more genuine and honest – I started corporate training. In that year I moved up to Johannesburg to improve my marketing opportunities and during that time I visited a few churches looking for my new &#8216;home&#8217; (another cliché). Wherever I went I threw my weight into supporting however I could, but as much as I loved the people I had serious issues with the facts underlying the faith. I couldn&#8217;t help but feel that it was all just an incredible waste of time and resources. I was also doing a lot of training for a very broad range of people – Christians, Muslims, Hindu&#8217;s, Jews, Agnostics and Atheists and I realized just how little I really understood any of these people. I understood what they &#8216;believed&#8217; sometimes better than they did, but I had never tried to befriend non-Christians without the hidden agenda of &#8216;getting them saved&#8217;. I realized how frighteningly arrogant Christians can be – at least those that actually do what their scriptures suggest they should do. I also started studying Philosophy and Anthropology, and in a very short time was inspired by the beauty of logical thinking and the integrity of scientific observation, hypothesis and testing, both of which were conspicuously absent in all religions, including my own. By 2007 I had decided that even if Jehovah existed, there was no clear mandate for Sunday services and all the trappings of church life, and decided to stop looking for a local church to be part of. Shortly after that I entered an agnostic phase, because intellectually, logically, and scientifically, I simply couldn&#8217;t see how any of the facts presented by Christianity could be true – but at the same time I was reluctant to give up the faith that had consumed a large part of my life and had come to define me.</p>
<p>In 2009 I woke up one morning and realized that I couldn&#8217;t stay satisfied with a state of agnosticism in light of the evidence against the world&#8217;s religions. The probability that a &#8216;God&#8217; exists is small, but that any of the specific &#8216;Gods&#8217; of our known religions (Jesus/Allah/Ja etc) could exist as laid out in the traditions is almost nonexistent. I realized in a moment of terror and relief that I no longer believed in any God at all and that non-belief would forever change the way that I related to the thousands of people who knew the &#8216;radical Christian&#8217; version of me. All my reasoning and arguments are laid out in my other articles on Religion, so I won&#8217;t cover them here.</p>
<p>My period of &#8216;Agnosticism&#8217; was the hardest time of my life. Everything I was, everything I&#8217;d done, had been defined in Christian terms, and suddenly it just wasn&#8217;t so clear anymore. I wept many tears during that time and felt a great sense of loss. I knew I would lose friends, many friends, as well as social recognition. The other problem was that &#8216;Church&#8217; was what I did best and now I would have to reinvent myself, or more accurately, rediscover myself; but at the same time there was a part of me that was evolving and growing up and becoming free – for this I was excited. As the scales of superstition and dogma began to fall away, I kept going over my entire life again and again with new understanding of what was really happening in those times when I thought I was having &#8216;spiritual experiences&#8217; or seeing &#8216;miracles&#8217; etc. I have also come to realize what an incredible sense of guilt and worthlessness Christians walk around with and cover these feelings up with clichés about being weak in self but strong in Christ; and how much time and resource is wasted on meaningless activities. When I was a Christian I just couldn&#8217;t see any of this because we all just hid behind a language and semantic that kept us all in check.</p>
<p>It is hard to describe just how free and empowered I feel since throwing off religion. There are no ghosts, no Gods, no spirits – nothing that cannot be explained. There are elements, and energy and light and other measurable forces all doing an amazing dance in a mind-shatteringly large and beautiful universe. We are a young and evolved species of mammals that individually have precious little time, only about 80 years so, to add benefit and happiness for future generations as they evolve into greater creatures. For their sakes I hope we realize the folly of war and religion and mysticism and tyranny, and turn our eyes to the stars and peace and longevity and science and reason, before we become the cause of our own extinction.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The point of this article is to highlight how billions of otherwise rational people gamble on insane odds in the area of their religious &#8216;faith&#8217;. Many religious people tell me that Atheists are making the gamble, because if they (Christians for instance) are wrong they &#8216;lose nothing&#8217;, but if we (Atheists) are wrong we &#8216;go [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img align="left" src="http://www.deonbarnard.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/022310_0850_Thegambleof1.jpg" alt=""/>The point of this article is to highlight how billions of otherwise rational people gamble on insane odds in the area of their religious &#8216;faith&#8217;. Many religious people tell me that Atheists are making the gamble, because if they (Christians for instance) are wrong they &#8216;lose nothing&#8217;, but if we (Atheists) are wrong we &#8216;go to Hell&#8217;. I was a Christian, the convicted deeply sure kind – missionary, pastor – the works. I can tell every Christian that if they&#8217;re wrong (and I know they are), not only do they lose an incredible amount in terms of wasted time and personal resources, but they are accountable to humanity for terrible atrocities and ubiquitous control and manipulation of populations. If Atheists are wrong they bring a strong argument to a &#8216;loving God&#8217; that they had no reason to believe and surely would not be punished for eternity for being reasonable. Let&#8217;s talk about that &#8216;reason&#8217; not to believe…
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<p>Because this article is about probability and reasonable evidence I will use a casino metaphor. We&#8217;ll call it the &#8216;Casino Argument&#8217;. All over the world hundreds of thousands of people play slot machines at casinos. I don&#8217;t personally play because the probabilities of winning are so remote that I&#8217;d have a better chance of coming across that money by working hard, which is also more enjoyable to me than sitting on a stool and pressing a button for hours on end. Nevertheless, people keep doing it. They &#8216;believe&#8217; they have a chance of winning because they have evidence that others have won – i.e. it is possible. There may be a one in a million chance of winning – insanely improbable odds – but those odds are backed by the fact that real people actually do win. We can get their addresses and verify their winnings with a bank statement or casino records. We have tangible evidence that million-dollar-winners actually exist in the world.
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<p>Now let&#8217;s say there was absolutely no evidence that anybody ever won at a particular casino. For years there was never an officially announced winner and the casino had no records of such a thing ever happening. No winner was ever published in a newspaper or announced on the TV. No-one had ever SEEN a winner. Would people keep going to that casino with one-in-a-million odds against them and no knowledge of their ever having been a winner? Probably not. A rational person, even a rational gambler, would find a casino where there was some evidence to back his faith in the machine.
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<p>But what if rumors started to circulate that a guy called &#8216;Moses&#8217; (a popular South African name) had won a million dollars,  but that he chose to keep it a secret and forbade the newspapers from publishing the story, and the casino conveniently &#8216;lost&#8217; the records. On top of that Moses had no surname and no-one knew where he lived or how to find him. Would the &#8216;Moses Myth&#8217; add weight to their belief in a win? For some it would, but for most it would make more sense to go to a casino where real people, rather than myths, won real money from time to time.
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<p>Now back to religion. The average human is not entirely stupid in my view – if I thought they were I wouldn&#8217;t bother writing these articles. On the contrary I see people making logical decisions every day. When people make decisions about moving home or personal finances or career plans etc. they use logic and reason. They weigh up the facts and go for the option that makes more logical sense. At times two options have the same weight and then they either go with feeling or preference or seek advice from someone who might tip the scales one way or another.
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<p>Why is religion exempt from this rational approach? Why do we believe &#8216;Moses Myths&#8217; when there is an overwhelming amount of evidence to the contrary? Why do we hold onto something with insane odds when the odds presented by science and reason are almost undeniable? I think the reasons are similar to that of another great illogicality – love. They say love is blind and it usually is. Millions of people fall out of love every day and yet when they fall in love again they forget all the lessons learned from the previous round of insanity. Why? Because it feels good! Because we don&#8217;t want to be alone. Because we want to be acceptable and accepted. Because we need someone else to give us a reason.
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<p>Just because the benefits of feeling in love doesn&#8217;t make a &#8216;happily ever after&#8217; true – so the benefits of religion (feeling good; communal acceptance; people to do things with during the week; feeling right or justified; something to stand for; etc.) don&#8217;t make the myth true. While religious people harp on about the &#8216;good&#8217; that religions do for the world, they refuse to recognize how pervasively sinister the whole thing is, and more importantly, how they personally contribute to the insanity of war, death, bondage, manipulation and mind control from the warmth and safety of their prayer meetings, worship sessions and church family fêtes.
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<p>Many religious people will get personally offended by this article because, in their minds, religion, or certainly their own religion, is above reproach, question or analysis &#8211; it is simply true and requires no reasonable evidence! I do have hope however that some rational religious people, if that is in fact possible, will respond with probabilities and evidence to back up their belief and follow the rules of rational discussion they would use for any other topic.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the spirit of reason, logic, communication and rationality, I am going to suggest a few reasons why people so often don&#8217;t make sense, and what they can do about their sense-less-ness. I refer to the way people engage in conversations, debates, critiques and other interactions with people where they&#8217;re trying to say something, but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img align="left" src="http://www.deonbarnard.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/012910_1405_Howtomakese1.jpg" alt=""/>In the spirit of reason, logic, communication and rationality, I am going to suggest a few reasons why people so often don&#8217;t make sense, and what they can do about their sense-less-ness. I refer to the way people engage in conversations, debates, critiques and other interactions with people where they&#8217;re trying to say something, but in fact say something else – or even worse, are trying to say something that really has nothing to do with the topic or context of the conversation.
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<p>There are several root causes for the dreaded disease of sense-less-ness:
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<li><strong>People don&#8217;t listen</strong>. Many people have the insanely annoying habit of listening only for gaps in the conversation so that they can continue to spew forth their out-of-context agenda at any cost. These people have no idea what anyone is talking about because they&#8217;re not engaged for the purpose of discovery or learning anything, but rather to give… and give… generously from their never-depleting resource of knowledge and oracle-like opinions. There are others in this category who simply don&#8217;t have time to both listen AND speak, so they err on the side of speaking. And then there are others still who can&#8217;t listen to you if they don&#8217;t like you – so the more offended they get, the less they hear anything you may have to say. You will never make sense until you learn to listen.
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<div><strong>People don&#8217;t understand or care about the rules of rational argument</strong>. This is my personal favorite! I can still handle someone who may not understand that they have broken three rules of logic in one sentence because they simply don&#8217;t have a clue what logic is or how to use it, but when someone who understands logic, insists on being illogical, for manipulative and bullying effect, I tend to lose my sense of humor. The following are NOT reasonable or logical arguments:
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<li>&#8220;Because I say so!&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;It must be true because I read it in a book&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m fond of carrots. Some cakes have carrots in them – so I love cakes&#8221;
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<li> &#8220;Zulus are taxi drivers&#8221;
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<p>It&#8217;s one thing for someone to get their argument muddled up in the heat of verbal dialogue – not everyone thinks quick on their feet – but there&#8217;s no excuse for sending an illogical email or letter which you&#8217;ve had time to think through and double check with a colleague for instance. Logic takes practice, and I have a strong conviction that all children should be taught logic and rational debating skills at school in their language classes, especially because so many kids drop mathematics as a subject in grade 10.
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<li><strong>People are dominated by their right or left brain</strong>. Not all systematic and logical people (left brained) make sense – mainly because they often lack in the emotional and people skills department. Often discussions only make sense in the context of both feeling (right brain) and fact (left brain). For instance, an emotional wife says something like &#8220;My whole world is crashing around me!!&#8221; Her left brained husband says &#8220;Don&#8217;t talk rubbish!&#8221; Of course, from a purely logical point of view he is correct in his assessment that his wife may be overstating the case, but he&#8217;s not connecting with the emotional truth that she feels as though she&#8217;s about to be crushed by a heavy weight. Her statement makes more &#8216;sense&#8217; than his in the context of what is being discussed. Equally, an entirely right brained person might take every conversation down a rabbit hole of fantasy and feeling and ignore all rules of logic. To be truly good at problem solving you need to develop both sides of your brain and also learn to be in tune with irony and sarcasm, as most people don&#8217;t usually &#8216;literally&#8217; say what they mean.
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<div><strong>People don&#8217;t know the difference between healthy debate and emotional warfare</strong>. All points of view that can be argued or defended are merely that – points of view. There are multitudes of people who simply cannot discuss some topics without getting &#8216;personally offended&#8217;, as though the topic defined them, and any disagreement is perceived as an attack on their character. Here are examples of points of view that have such people lashing back with personal attacks and irrationality:
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<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t think God exists&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;Marriage is irrelevant today&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;Pornography can be healthy&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;Women should have the right to have an abortion&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;There&#8217;s nothing wrong with being gay – people have the right to have sex with anyone they like&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;George bush was correct to invade Iraq&#8221;
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<li>&#8220;The bible is not God&#8217;s word. It was written by men&#8221;
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<p>These are the sorts of topics that cause people to switch off, stop listening and shut down – and they shouldn&#8217;t be! It&#8217;s 2010 – time to grow up and stop living in the dark ages of cultural and religious censorship.
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<p>So what can one do when they discover the early symptoms of sense-less-ness in their lives? Pray… Only kidding! Read – grow your paradigms and vocabulary which are tools for rational discussion. Learn about the language of logic (Philosophy 101). Listen! Listen to hear and understand – not to respond – then your responses will make sense. Grow your general knowledge and sense of the world. Practice – engage in debates on hot topics with people you trust and feel safe with, this will help you practice the techniques of reasonable and rational debate. And finally – don&#8217;t take everything personally – have fun talking to people, even when they disagree with you… no wait – ESPECIALLY when they disagree with you!
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